Wednesday, May 22

Hunger Is Not Your Friend; World Hunger is An Issue


This blog post is based on the woman who took to wailing in the streets, breast bare and rolling on the floor to get attention to her situation and that of her five children.  It's no news that hunger is real in the world; in this case Nigeria. We might be sanctimonious like the lawyer woman who granted punch interview, we can accuse her of being crazy or judge her for baring her breasts in the streets. I do not Judge her. Hunger is nobody's friend.

 

Do you want to stop and think for a moment, what will make a woman resort to such means... she must have been at the end of her wits and tolerance she was desperate and wanted a change, if not for her, for her five children.

The issue of world hunger is real and the question is what are we going to do about it?

 
 Millions of Nigerians are unemployed in fact; in 2012 according to the Nigerian Tribune website www.tribune.com 71% of Nigerians live below £0.61 same as one dollar a day that my people is abject poverty. Yet the rich keep getting richer, amassing wealth for their generation unborn (I just might say that generation will not see the light of day but I won't...) while the poor languish in hunger, needs and sickness...  We can say people should get self employed but does the economic climate of the country give room for that?  In a county where 20.3 million of our population is completely unemployed not mentioning the ones who are under employed, how do we expect our people to feed and live?

 

I am of the opinion that as much as the people need to think like there is no box and get out there creating jobs for themselves and others as much as they can; The Nigerian government owes its people. No electricity, no pipe borne water, no good roads, poor almost nonexistent health care, below average education  nothing!  How do you expect the average man to survive let alone create jobs?  Our government with almost some due respect have failed us, over the years, we have seen nothing but failure; total epic failure, siphoning money in the name of governance. My advice, get your act together because it won't be long the change we need will come!

 

It's an appalling situation, the most painful/annoying thing is that this is happening in a country like Nigeria; a country blessed with natural goodness that should create wealth for the entirety of the nation, yet this wealth is trapped in the hands of a few people while the rest of the populace wallow in poverty! My greatest fear when it comes to Nigeria is that the nation might remain a rich country who will remain poor, a crawling adult who has been crippled by the ones who should give her wings. We can change his, I know we can, right now I don't know how but I know the much needed change will come. We will fight for it; we will not hold our peace.

 

My heart is pained and I hope as young people we are disturbed with the situation of our county and are motivated to make a change.

 

Sunday, May 19

Direction, Decisions in all things be Encouraged!




You will hear him say this is the way walk in it!



These two words are extremely important to me right now, I have been enjoying the student status for a while now but alas, my second degree draws to a close and life, real life I mean, is about to start... I began to see that I needed direction to make the right decisions...

Then it came to me, there are people like me out there who are in the same position and the future feels like you are standing at the beach and uncertainty seems to fill the air...

 Be encouraged, God has promised to be with you all the way even to the end. He is right there, he will be the voice saying to you turn right, turn left... kind alike a navigational system just this time its not apple neither is it Google.  He will direct your every move by breathing upon you.

His love will renew everything in your life and you shall enjoy direction. He has promised you that you will not walk in the dark and that's just what he's going to do. Trust him, believe him, Be encouraged.

Have a beautiful week lovelies!

Monday, April 22

Photos; Weekend away!



 
So often my friend Dayor of Dayorwrites would admonish me, take a break, take some time off etc...

 I finally did! I went to Sheffield to visit my friend and guess what? I had so much fun! I watched this movie 'Olympus Has Fallen' this was like the best movie I've ever seen!!!! I loved loved loved it. Then I went bowling... then went to get drinks... then... then... As if 'le boyfriend knew' I was on a mission to relax, he so behaved! I didn't have to quarrel or argue or anything... anything I said was ok... oh and we Skyped too we talked for so long it made me feel better about putting myself in a LDR!

 

In all this weekend was so good I felt like I just had to tell you, because when things are going tough, I come here to complain... why not come here to celebrate a nice peaceful and fun filled weekend?

 

So events of the weekend,

Night one; Friday; I made my hair... yes I install my weaves by myself. Then I helped my friend relax (apply relaxer to soften the hair) her hair.... I ate this big bowl of Indomie noodles and spinach.

Saturday... I installed my friend's weave and then we hit the town.... later watched 'Olympus has fallen'! And believe me Olympus truly fell LOL

Sunday:  after church, we went shopping.... after shopping we went home and prepared this born again pot of Egusi soup (Melon soup) and Pounded yam! Then we hit the town, went bowling and went to get some drinks... there I tried out almost all the cocktail drinks on the menu...

It was a nice peaceful weekend!

They say a picture is worth a thousand words... well, I have more than a picture so let's see; about a hundred thousand words will be spoken by these....




Was about to leave Buckingham... was checking if the squats are working... LOL




Hair and make up done by me! I'm actually getting better at this!

Her Royal roundness LOL


I love this one!





Le boo and I... thats my friend Ronke..


Goofing off with my new Primark sunlasses.... but then I sat on it a few moments later it broke and I binned it! waste of my one pound!


Bowling center!


Tag this picture!




At the movies... i made her hold the pop corn so people won't say this fat girl is still eating!!! LOL *covers face*


Tram stop!

On the coach back! I didn't want the weekend to end!!!

Saturday, April 13

Update On Life's Journey!


So, I have been enjoying the new year, I won't lie I have had my share of ups and downs I must say the ups kind of trumps the down... it's been a hectic year but you know the faith that God is with me all the time has kept me going... I have some gist for you guys... just a little update on life, love and my journey through the first quarter of the year... it's been hectic but only the living can decipher if a situation is hectic or not ya dig?

So first, this year I have had to outgrow my dependence on money... there was a time in my life when I could be down with a fever if I was low on cash... LOL I gradually outgrew that, but I was still a little dependent on how robust my wallet felt and this year God has taught me to believe and trust in him and that money was really nothing. I have also learnt to develop a proper saving habit I will keep that close to my heart from now on not just close to my heart, I will actually follow through with a grown up saving habit... let's just say I've been a bad girl!

Through my crazy law school schedule and balancing my LDR and all other crazy events in my life God has found ways to put a smile on my face... you know those smiles that can't be explained and cannot be controlled. First, it was an email I got from Ynaija to submit an article in their 30 days 30 voices segment... that was a success and I got amazing feed back... God knows my career is the best way to make me smile... he's an amazing God.

Let's put it this way top five things I love and that makes me happy...

·         My career and passion ( writing, motivational reaching out and the Law)

·         Food

·         Gym

·         Love

·         Family and Friends

So, one Friday my friends called me to go to the movies with them but because I had plans to study I declined and went to the library... shortly after I started studying, a friend and church member called me and said lets go to Tesco I almost said no but then I decided to say yes we got to Tesco and he grabbed a trolley, handed it to me and said take whatever you want... it felt like a Nollywood movie for a second. It was real... I got all my groceries that day... including laundry necessities... it was a nice evening! I was really appreciative and I couldn't stop thanking God.  

My weight loss journey has been going ok, I have lost some weight and most importantly I am constantly motivated to do better which was my major issue... I couldn't just get up and hit the gym... *covers face*

My love life... well that's work in progress... God will perfect that! I'm relaxing o! God cannot put all this hot men in the world and not have planned to hand me one! *wink* Anyhoo, My LDR with Le Bobo is going hitch free at the moment... I have God to thank.

He has made me smile on some very important fronts in my life....
Family and friends... everyone is ok... No trouble I need god to perfect all that concerns me in that aspect though... I am trusting and believing.
This entire story is to encourage someone out there... God is looking out for you! He has not left you alone to cater for yourself. He loves you and has promised to never leave nor forsake you. Be encouraged, be motivated don't give in to depression be thankful for life, be hopeful for a better future.

Blessing and Love
Misslara

Sunday, April 7

Reflections... Life is a journey (An Update on My boredom)






So, on Saturday night, I was bored so bad and I didn't hesitate to say it out loud. I have decided to go on  a seven day journey just to reflect.  I kinda discovered that to find me I need to find God. God has gone nowhere he's is ever present, our relationship with him is not a feeling relationship, it's not something you feel, even when you don't feel it, he is there; It is a faith relationship.

You know, life has its ups and downs and when you find yourself on the downs it doesn't mean that God is no longer there it just means you have to remind yourself that he is, probably look over and reach out to him.

So, for the next seven days I am going to be doing some reaching out, some decision making and character building and some soul searching if you may... It means we are going to be fasting and praying and sowing seeds of prayers into our future... becoming better persons in order to achieve what God has planned for us...

So you are invited to Go on this reflective journey with me or better, if you have been through this process in recent time... then share with me your progress in the comment box below...

Saturday, April 6

I am Bored; Thirsty for life!!!







Lord, I am bored!!!! I need a change, anything!

 I am so very bored I feel like the insides of my brain is beginning to close in... I need a new hobby, I need my mind to be stimulated, I need a change Asap! I need help!

The kind of boredom I feel though, is not the need for Adrenaline like I am used to, its a deeper longing for change, a new path, a new hobby something to make my life count... Really I just feel so weird; but then, I am usually weird....

I will put it this way, I am thirsty for life, I feel as though I am not living to the full capacity I have been blessed with, I feel like I play it safe; I feel like I am not doing enough; I feel like I need wings of some sort... I really don't know! i am just thirsty, thirsty for life!


Dear friends what do you suggest? I need pointers on things to do.

Love and Blessings
Misslara


Tuesday, March 26

Born Again Virgin or Celibate?


 

Lately, I've been watching the American show ' The Bachelor' personally I think the show is weird and the girls who go there need a smack on the head! Seriously, 15 of you date the same guy and then you weep like he's your relative when you are asked to leave? What did you expect? Did the others come there to watch you win? (Sell groundnut)

Anyhoo, my point is that 'Sean Lowe' the very sexy bachelor this season described himself as a born again virgin. This is all over social media.  I fear  a young girl trying to decide what to do with the 'cookie'  would read such junk and think "I can do whatever I like and then become a born again virgin" it's not that simple in reality. There is a difference between a new Ferrari and a refurbished Ferrari even though they both look shiny! Depending on who you are, what kind of life you lead etc, sex is a decision to be carefully made... it's not a sporting activity! My advice anyway will be to hold off on the sex drama!

 Celibacy is a laudable venture! I am a believer in it and I feel like it should be encouraged among unmarried people. But to say you are revirginised that doesn't quite explain your state... once you 'do the do' you never go back; we have heard of several methods women use to restore the form of their 'cookie' but that does not make them virgins does it?

 I am aware of the scripture 'old things have passed away behold all things have become new' but I feel like it's a misconception to refer to yourself as a virgin after you have had sex because you have made a new decision to abstain... you are simply celibate.

That's what I think; what do you think? Please leave your thoughts down in the comment box!

 

Blessings and Love!

Misslara